It is a fact of life that sometimes; if not many times human plans do not work out as planned. In most situations, it can be depressing because of dashed hopes and expectations. If this happens a fews times, it can lead to frustrations and finger pointing will rear it's head. Some men may start accusing their wife of witchcraft, while the woman may accuse the husband of recklessness or whatever best describes the reason for the aborted plans to her. The truth is that this is the wrong approach to handling dissatisfaction
emanating from failed plans or delayed manifestations of aspirations and dreams. Couples are not only one when all is good and things working as planned. They are also one when when plans fail and when dreams are delayed. The right approach to handling these moments of dissappointment and down time is to be an encouragement to each other. Analyse the situation together and come up with solutions together without pointing fingers at each other. This way, if any of the partners is responsible for the situation, he/she will not feel crushed by the additional blame but will rather be resolved to do better in future while the love and peace in the family continues. I pray that the Lord will grant couples patience and understanding in the name of Jesus. In due course, you will reap if you faint not. GOD BLESS YOU.
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